"Dig the well before you are thirsty'"
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
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Friday, September 3, 2010
Life after marriage??????
What will be life like after marriage? Will i be able to adjust in new home, with new family in a completely new environment?
These questions are the only things on a girl's mind before the Big Day. But how to make the new people and place like your own is never thought about. One always thinks i will do what makes me and my husband happy, cook good food, be a good home maker apart from handling my career. But what no one thinks about that there are other people in your new home apart from your husband. One should think how to work towards achieveing that perfect family in perfect home with perfect happiness for all.
The only golden word needed for the perfection is Compromise. The day we would learn to compromise we would have all the above. But compromise doesn't mean that you let others take advantage of you. Be aware of things around you. But find little ways where you can spread happiness to all and smiles on everyone's faces. Taking care of someone's feelings at the cost of yours would sometimes make you sad but then others would appreciate your efforts and they would also take care of your happiness too.
The relationships in this world stand on one basic pillar that is good verbal communication. One well known saint, Giani Sant Bhai Maskeen ji once rightly explained that all relationships in this world are based on how you communicate with each other.If you talk good to people , you get the same in return. If you don't talk to people for days or months or years, that would slowly bring a gap in between people even with closest of relationships lik husband and wife.
Always remember being soft spoken is not buttering or flattering someone. Talk good and people would do the same with you. And compromises and bending down in front of your elders won't make you small rather that keeps relationships and turn you into better individual. Take new people as your very own. Keeping these things in mind would help alot in adjusting in new home. Every home every family is different from the other so you might not get all that you had before. But accepting the new as it is should be followed. All the best to everyone one out there with similar questions.
These questions are the only things on a girl's mind before the Big Day. But how to make the new people and place like your own is never thought about. One always thinks i will do what makes me and my husband happy, cook good food, be a good home maker apart from handling my career. But what no one thinks about that there are other people in your new home apart from your husband. One should think how to work towards achieveing that perfect family in perfect home with perfect happiness for all.
The only golden word needed for the perfection is Compromise. The day we would learn to compromise we would have all the above. But compromise doesn't mean that you let others take advantage of you. Be aware of things around you. But find little ways where you can spread happiness to all and smiles on everyone's faces. Taking care of someone's feelings at the cost of yours would sometimes make you sad but then others would appreciate your efforts and they would also take care of your happiness too.
The relationships in this world stand on one basic pillar that is good verbal communication. One well known saint, Giani Sant Bhai Maskeen ji once rightly explained that all relationships in this world are based on how you communicate with each other.If you talk good to people , you get the same in return. If you don't talk to people for days or months or years, that would slowly bring a gap in between people even with closest of relationships lik husband and wife.
Always remember being soft spoken is not buttering or flattering someone. Talk good and people would do the same with you. And compromises and bending down in front of your elders won't make you small rather that keeps relationships and turn you into better individual. Take new people as your very own. Keeping these things in mind would help alot in adjusting in new home. Every home every family is different from the other so you might not get all that you had before. But accepting the new as it is should be followed. All the best to everyone one out there with similar questions.
Sunday, August 1, 2010
Tree of love
Once there was him and there was me
no hesitations and no limitations
no space for their intrusions
to shake the tree of love.
Though time always a master and a healer,
allowed useless and unthoughtful to come into world
I wanna stop them, I wanna revert them... but they won't stop
I asked him for help, I asked them to help... but they won't stop
please somebody stop them.... my tree wants to live.
At last...there is someone ...somebody big...here to my rescue
the only one who will help my tree withstand
against all negative forces of nature
the only one who will built a protective vault
my faith...my faith in "us", my faith in love
now i can breathe.... for now I know me and my tree will survive.
I saved the tree, faith strengthened the roots... we win this life.
no hesitations and no limitations
no space for their intrusions
to shake the tree of love.
Though time always a master and a healer,
allowed useless and unthoughtful to come into world
I wanna stop them, I wanna revert them... but they won't stop
I asked him for help, I asked them to help... but they won't stop
please somebody stop them.... my tree wants to live.
At last...there is someone ...somebody big...here to my rescue
the only one who will help my tree withstand
against all negative forces of nature
the only one who will built a protective vault
my faith...my faith in "us", my faith in love
now i can breathe.... for now I know me and my tree will survive.
I saved the tree, faith strengthened the roots... we win this life.
Saturday, July 24, 2010
My heart poured out
Two souls one body when fall apart,
broken hearts fall into thousand parts;
One step now is one hour away,
and mind has lost its way;
I see moon among million stars,
and path of thorns is the only way;
Salty drops don't let the river dry,
but the stone won't budge like the stubborn fly;
I wish i could run from the world,
away from hearts with hatred and ignorance filled.
broken hearts fall into thousand parts;
One step now is one hour away,
and mind has lost its way;
I see moon among million stars,
and path of thorns is the only way;
Salty drops don't let the river dry,
but the stone won't budge like the stubborn fly;
I wish i could run from the world,
away from hearts with hatred and ignorance filled.
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Love my family!!
Yesterday i stood with hope in future,
today i stand with candle with no light in darkness
Yesterday i was up and straight on the ground,
today i can't rise from the earth
Yesterday i had the thousands of footprints behind me,
today only few loving steps follow to support me
Yesterday i didn't know the difference between friends and foe,
today i understand the meaning of real love
Yesterday it was only black letters in a book,
today in fact people in need are family indeed.
today i stand with candle with no light in darkness
Yesterday i was up and straight on the ground,
today i can't rise from the earth
Yesterday i had the thousands of footprints behind me,
today only few loving steps follow to support me
Yesterday i didn't know the difference between friends and foe,
today i understand the meaning of real love
Yesterday it was only black letters in a book,
today in fact people in need are family indeed.
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